I just recently moved in with my boyfriend of two years, and am dealing with trying to find certain balances. I want to be in his life forever, getting married at some point, and I would like to be closer to his children. I understand how important it is for me to get along with these kids, and I really do love them, so I would like to find a way to become closer to them. A friend of mine recommended a parenting directory to me, and it is supposed to deal with that subject. I want the kids to know that I love them, without thinking that I am trying to replace their mother.